Oct 4, 2011

Love and Mercy - not just that!

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim...

Last weekend, I went to this Alkauthar's course, A-Z of Love and Mercy. It was my second time joining alKauthar in Penang, as I don't think I'm able to afford to fly to KL to attend either alMaghrib or alKauthar courses..

SubhanaLlah it was wonderful, awesome!

Some people are saying,
"Wow you're going to this course! Are you getting married soon?"
*making funny faces* "What did you learn there? Anything interesting?"

In my humble opinion, it's not a problem for us to learn that kind of course. Whether I'm getting married soon or not, whether I'm young or old. The class had even been attended by parents, youngsters. It's all knowledge that we should learn and share to others. Allahul musta'aan. :)

Some of the words I can share for now:

Less interactions before marriage increases the barakah, inshaALlah :)

"There is no marriage without a wali and (upright) witnesses." (Reported by Ahmad & AlBaihaqi)

Accepting an invitation to the walimah is obligatory. Fasting is not an excuse to not attend the function.

Until a zani/zaniyah (the one who commits zina), s/he is temporarily forbidden from the believing muslim. So repentance is the first condition before she can marry believing men and vice versa.

The responsibility of a father is to find the suitable husband, not preventing for invalid reasons!

Lastly, may you live happily every after~ ;)

1 comment:

deen said...

"Less interactions before marriage increases the barakah, inshaALlah"

Do you know what barakah is? Barakah is akin to something of "good fortune" or "something good happening to you continuously", in the will of Allah.

"Less interactions before marriage increases good things given by Allah to you, insyaAllah"

Allahu Musta'an.. :)